Why do proponenets of arranged marriages only say the good things of it when there are MANY tragedies too?

Arranged marriages do have a lower divorce rate than love marriages(buit people can still be together and yet unhappy), and often times,the couples DO learn to love each other, but on the other sid, there are TONS of horror stoires of parental persecution, pressure, abuse against women, heartache, etc, and the proponents still say it's wonderful, when overall, there are MANY tragedies that I've knwon that outweigh the low divorce rates of this system, but they don't mention it./ This is NOT a victimless system, so why don't the proponenets of this system mention this?